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		<title>Do You Pick the Dead Man&#8217;s Solution? Focus on What You Want to Be Instead of What You Don&#8217;t Want to Be</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Simon Moesgaard]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Apr 2014 06:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The dead man&#8217;s solution is to have goals that could be achieved by a dead man, such as having no pain or no more terrible feelings. At first, it seems like some nice goals to have, but in fact they may not help us. It is often easier to mention things that we don&#8217;t want to [&#8230;]</p>
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